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Important terms in self-improvement

Important terms in self-improvement

The development of science is the study and development of individual and community capacity in the area of behavioral science.
And specialization have known industrial psychology and organizational
Industrial \ Organizational Psychology
It is studied in forensic science in humaine.

* Self development and culture: _

Culture (Culture)
Is the process of exchange of information and knowledge about the environment surrounding the community
Through a set of tools, methods, and techniques.
To reflect on the value and trends and behavior.

* Values (Values)
Is set of convictions that define individual preferences, and specify the balance of things,
And what is right and wrong, and acceptable and unacceptable.

* Orientation (Attitude)
Is the tendency or mental and psychological preparedness for responding to something or someone or a certain position.

* Behavior
Is the set of actions and expressions of internal and external (non-phenomenon phenomenon)
The individual on track to meet its requirements and adjustment requirements
The social context in which they live, and is a means to achieve its objectives.
 
* Basic concepts to learn human behavior: _

# Motivation
Motivation is an external requirement within individual offset raises tension internally driven to respond to particular conduct
In order to satisfy this requirement.

If it leads to saturation----> satisfaction
If it does not lead to satisfying----> foil
# Incentives
Are external forces generate internal energy paid an individual to make an extra effort to get more gratification.
Completion rate
XD = desire * knowledge * ability.

Theories of motivation: _
1. consolidation theory:-
The supporters of the theory of reinforcement reinforcement that support direct and stimulate individual,
And the following to the humanitarian disposition affect the likelihood of recurrence of the individual to act
The level of performance expected in the following times.
If an individual pursuant to completed it is expected a reaction or feedback from others,
If the reaction is positive, the individual tends to repeat already,
Or better, depending on the reaction, if the reaction is negative,
Perhaps this omission.
2. theory of goal setting: _
See the draw and stimulates the individual, it is not enough to encourage them to do the best it can do your best
But must be precisely defined goals, the ambitious goal,
Upon acceptance of the person and his conviction, it works by itself as an incentive,
Better than soft targets or are not.
Also see feedback strengthens motivation and help to continue.
It is believed that one of the most important factors to increase the influence of objective as an incentive: the conviction and commitment of purpose
Commitment, and belief in the ability to do self-efficacy.
 
3. theory of expectations: _
The theory of expectations that individual behavior have a series of relationships as follows: _

The individual lead effort expected to lead to improved performance or behavior
If you improve performance or behavior that an individual is expected to be its appreciation
And if the appreciation is expected to satisfy this appreciation has subjective requirement.
Fisheries decision-making
Beauty salon (packaging sugar sugar coating).
InQ (after all they spent that prompts me to change).
Over-confidence (reassure: I can change whenever you want).

The process of self-development
Aims to develop the capacity to become more capable of achieving our objectives efficiently and effectively.

What is the process of change: _
Are any activities that lead to actually make is different from normal.

Development process: _
Deliberate planned activities are designed to improve practice.

Capacity: _
Is mental and muscular capability to perform a task or job.

Efficiency and effectiveness: _
Efficiency
Is the ability to work with the best use of resources. That is the number of units used from any resource to carry out the work.

Effectiveness: _
Is the ability to achieve planned goals. I.e. proportion than to the overall target.
 
When the individual feels the need for change: _
Acquire new information led to a change in trends.
The emergence of new needs is not saturated.
A decline in performance in comparison to past performance.
A decline in performance compared to others.
The evolution of cultural or educational level.
Exposure to external or internal pressure makes it imperative for individual change.

Types of change: _
Amendment: _
(Small sequential progress changes – self – to accommodate unexpected circumstances).

Compatibility:-
(Small sequential phased changes – under an external effect HHhhhh – to fit the reality of noob).

Adaptation: _
(Critical changes-to accommodate unexpected circumstances).

Reconstruction: _
(Critical changes under external HHhhhh effect – to fit the reality of noob).

The reasons for the success of change: _
Change your optional "forced".
Change meets the requirement.
I have knowledge of the steps necessary to bring about change.
The change to the progressive phases "unsurprised".
I enjoy my feeling of accomplishment.
I've taken adequate precautions that help me to continue.
I've helped others to also change during a phase change.
It was not possible to continue the previous situation.
 
Why the change:.
The current situation is not too bad, and I used it.
There are many in case worse.
What will the new situation.
I've been thinking about a lot in the saftkodha habits with this change.
A long road to change.
The environment around me did not help me.
I don't know how to change.
There are no catalysts to continue to change.

Stages of change: _
The formulation of the vision.
Mobilization and motivation (why must change – present reality damage. the expected benefits of the new reality).
Support (what I need – new friends-old friends behaviour development-accompanying new habits).
Implementation (schedule-score review-progress goals).
Follow-up (documenting achievements – amendment when needed – consulting and additional information).
Appreciation (bonus self – sense of achievement – share).

Islamic curriculum change: _

1. persuasion need to change
(Luqman said to his son as the son does not preach him engage in God).
(Ya Bani sails and not been unbelievers).
(Ya Bani tkoss not seeing on your brothers, they be about to you Kida).

2. narrative method combined with lesson and sermon for examples
(Is a modern Muse .... ATAC ...).
(ATAC ... soldiers talk.).

3. simulation and imaging of target mode and return it (paradise and bliss)
 
4. simulation and imaging mode is desired and return it (hell, purgatory)

5. promote the righteous and accompany the righteous (not your village)

6. the prohibition on mixing with the corrupt

7. promote the determination and follow-up (and exalt yourself with those who claim their Lord and not your eyes)

8. progressive implementation (wine)

9. to urge the immediate commencement and not procrastinating (hurry-Malcolm if you said should athakltm)

10. provide alternatives (replacing a delicacy and deprived of all evils – denied to you ..... And below,
The campus thug and solve marriage)

Change: _
Is the transition of the situation (a) to (b) across the road (a-b)

XD = desire * knowledge * capacity

Knowledge: _
Easily accessible from attending lectures, reading books – success stories.
Consult specialists and experienced.
 
Capacity: _
Determine availability of muscle and mental energy and intellectual, and lead to the decision to enter into the experience,
Or need to develop capacities before entering into the experience.

Desire: _
An internal matter concerning the strength of the stimulus to the new situation, and the power of dissonance with the current situation.

Permission: _

Change only from the inside, and no matter how the experienced help us
The change will not happen unless they desired him and we started.

(That God does not change the condition of a people until they change it themselves). .

Practical steps to change: _

-Select your goals in life (how to worship God).
-Identified areas of change and priorities.
-Trust double interest (change and reward wrestle with the self).
-Trust in your ability to accomplish the change with God.
-Select stages of achievement and score to continue and be patient.
-The body of the current situation harms to yourself.
-Bone in yourself the target situation advantages.
-Start immediately.
-Analysed the constraints change carefully.
-Be sure to provide useful alternatives to previous habits.
-Encouraging your colleagues and your family to change with you.
-Read success stories and learn from them.
-Not the environment or is in the environment (accompanying help you, who hinder you dimension).
-Reward yourself every success.
 
 
 
 
 
 

To avoid bickering with the one you love

To avoid bickering with the one you love

One can avoid getting into scuffles broke out with loves them and enhance their relations by following the following tips:

1. give sufficient time for relationships with others to grow and prosper, so that real intimacy growing slowly.

2. one should be characterized by honesty and openness with the likes of the resort to lies and deception and keep secrets can destroy a person's relationship with others.

3. one must expect that it loves them some shortcomings so that no people, and some minor deficiencies can be grainy at times.

4. one should always treat others as likes to treat him.

5. one that boasts the successes achieved by close to his heart while avoiding entering with them in competition or compare their achievements with those of.

6. one must not expect that things are always fine because most established subject to differences and conflicts from time to time.

7. communicate with others continuously because the warmth of human touch helps get rid of the effects of isolation and despair.

8. one should be a good listener to others; expressed that reflects their interest in and concerns them by their importance.

9. one must be smiling in the face of love, so that sincere smile reflect the intimate personality.

10. one must not destroy confidence between himself and those close to his heart or talking behind their backs so that their relations will spoil rapidly.

Learn the art of one of Prague from hates k..!!.

Learn the art of one of Prague from hates k..!!.

Man cannot live without

So unfortunately, not in this day and age, but figured that was as old as humans.

And even if one of us tried to

The best of the good itself, must find it antagonize you or hate you

So, if received or if and speak do not know at all!?


Your business may be causes of hatred and hostility to some of you,

It may be your success in your life also causes,

Brusick and has come for your reputation in the community causes and motivations of anti-Semitism among some,

Or other reasons

Many more that we count her in this limited space.

This is not the case, and I don't think it's worth us thinking and attention,

But overlooked is the best and more.

So those who hate you, antagonize you have

Is the same in tight and lasting chagrin, this I believe


Cruel from you for your reluctant and your animosity. This first,

The next step in further inspired when your animosity is

Embarrass ... This is how

If you antagonize you and hate you days mentioned disadvantages and faults you in front of people in attendance, but without reference to you or mention your name, don't resist it. And defend yourself.

But do you support and criticism of those disadvantages also.

Like you never know that you intended, and that's what will surprise. .

Try to answer his questions by addressing other topics far from the subject, insisted the subject and for this time you intended, showed him your wonder and you expect to be an ...

The I saw determination, then tempered atmosphere by funny answers and lists some jokes. .

This will aghazoth and raising more and more, the result appear to be improper and is Thaer Ghadban, while you as a snowman in the desert cold Siberia doesn't melt.

At the time the person will note the same

And that anarchist nothing

And that its appearance already inappropriately in front of people,

It begins with the tilt toward pacification,

And then fall gradually in the forest service, start of people present or you hated ...

And your attitude that would make him ...

In future, think a thousand times before they attack you in front of others, and will realize that what was done, then see him permanently was not

(May not be the first time),

But your hatred has also now B4 losing leaves and ...

Here can be seen.

The force in one is mute anger and restraint,

Not reply ...Likewise. .

The attacks the other, always left many gaps without being aware of it, these gaps are springboards to counter-attack from the other party that he wanted,,

This is necessarily an attack.

And that any one of us away from those platitudes and minutiae, and unmistakably or heart space football one or notoriously,,

Life is short and not worth ...

Force one is mute anger and restraint,

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