How to develop confidence in ourselves
Respect for tradition is embedded in us since a young age, but constant criticism by parents and family members help to grab our appreciation for ourselves.
That low self-esteem we have confidence in ourselves, nobody takes in making even the smallest decisions and this brings us to the point of contempt for ourselves and we don't deserve to be happy.
That self-confidence will increase if you improve respecting yourself and this is the first step towards a happy and dignified life. Be sure you are distinct and unique and deserves to be a human being who achieves his dreams, and then you can get this confidence.
Steps:
1. a few steps and make yourself small options to gain confidence in your ability to make a decision. And become more confident in your ability to a good choice whenever gained confidence in yourself and your abilities.
-For example: If you feel anxiety when you buy a pair of jeans as a result of your confusion in choosing between items, colors and shapes, ventured into the purchase. This simple decision can be corrected through pants another swap only if you realize you made the wrong decision. In any case try to cling to your first choice.
-Then buy a shirt suit trousers. You have enough time to reconcile items and different colors, when you feel something, then rejoice that you have taken the right decision and buy it immediately. This feeling that I felt is that will help you to strengthen your self-esteem. Think and say "if I did it in a good way I can performed other acts. There is a correlation between confidence and self-esteem.
-Wear the shirt and pants while going to meet your friends. Splurge by Zec and realize the moment you hear the compliments that you have made the decision.
-Smile and be proud of yourself because you have succeeded in passing the first step to gain confidence in yourself by your ability to make a decision.
-This new sense of confidence lies in wanting to prove yourself and simple decision.
2. reward yourself for awhile and know you are the dreams that you dream of and. Be confident in yourself and will trust you.
3. good self-confidence.
4. the concerns that you encountered and the coherence of all your failings, get up and try again. The dilemma is not to fail, but attempts to succeed.
5. no ring to the delight of others always. That concern for the feelings of others is PAL, but pay attention to your needs is also important. Beware of emulating others. Will be better when you because you are you and nothing else. Fought to be the best and do not criticize yourself if you fail to reach your expectations.
6. stay away from people with loud voices and aggressive lesbian, or people who hold negative views may affect you. Do not compare yourself with others, just be the best.
7. do something that leaves a good impression of yourself such as voluntary in a shelter for the homeless or on charity. Be a brother or a sister Connie. Helped someone else needed help because nothing will make you feel better about yourself as you see this person, and you realize that you have uploaded to a glimmer of hope.
8. learn and study hard, and not learn only what is interesting and useful. It is possible to learn photography or design, or programming, or a chapter of literature. Etc. All this will increase your self-esteem.
Recommendations:
That inner strength that will enable you to achieve your goals in life. If you fall during the walk, breath and try again.
-By basing your confidence, you will feel better and respecting yourself and will grow inside and out.
-It may seem to you that the decisions are not all correct. But just keep in mind that you are the person who is making all the decisions in his life right or wrong. Because you are responsible for your choices, you have the full capability to change positions. You left your self-confidence withers away or fade because you failed to have a choice, don't let a sense of self-worth which enhance you falls and breaks down. There are other options you can achieve. Yes you can bring and will earn!.
I know that most people advertised that they deplored the things you done more of that stuff did they do her.
-Be bold and don't overextend yourself. If there is something that did not materialize as hoped, you at least privilege again.
-The individuals choice and have the ability to look deeply into themselves and say: I can do "or" I did it.
-That the decisions will not be just about what you wear, or buy it. We must take decisions on everything that goes on in our lives of details and circumstances and people. It may be that you should take is "where will you live", is a personal style that you like that who marry?, choose a job or profession, to any school to go?, will continue in college. It may be a decision on whether to move to another State or another country.
-See yourself every day in the mirror and find something that makes you proud of yourself and try to say some positive things in yourself and your accomplishments and masruq.
-Be sure to indulge yourself in all times. Tell yourself how much you are great! Or how are you today are in good condition. These positive things you mention yourself will help you feel confident.
Imagine yourself surrounded by a number of people who they Pat on your back or they shake hands with you, and you are standing and applauding, that imagination is a very powerful way possible that you use. The most important thing is to use the most important thing is that you are satisfied with yourself, you will not be able to achieve everything you want, but provided that the insured and satisfied when you can convince you by the way you want it to behave, you find that you are filled with more and more confidence, and your life will be in the direction you want, whether that decision is going to college or move to another country as you want.
-A high degree of design you will get everything you need or want and this will increase your self-esteem. So things work for you and know you you must help yourself by helping others.
Be selfish because you can't afford to lose or to come up with, and when you reach the highest level you want for yourself, then you can start helping others with less degree of self-esteem. And in the end only will remember everything you do and you know who you are and what you want.
Warnings:
Some decisions require the participation of other persons as medically-related resolution or resolution on where you will live after the marriage, as well as the issuance of some decisions require collective participation, should understand that. But when the self-confidence of the place so that you can depend on it, this sense of self-esteem will pass through difficult decisions.
-The caves of self-esteem is a concern. Do not direct profile only be aware that concern is not good and not feeling bad. Mechanism of action of yourself telling you that there is something wrong and you need to act on this thing. That concern is the fuel that ignites a fire response to deal with the error and then develop self-esteem.
-Be careful! Do not exaggerate in basing self-esteem, this may lead to your vanity and arrogance if not left in moderation.
-Every person goes through different stages of emotion where high self-esteem as well as low and this happens especially if sentenced yourself through successes and failures "as others do. If you learn how to estimate self through natural acts as a "contribution to society", then you are qualified to develop high self-esteem without any disrespect for others.
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