Thirty y.. To succeed in life
We all want success in life, but some of us fail to reach him because he thought that the word success difficult to impossible. The fact that we may have neglected the reasons for success, and we perpetuated to the Earth, through the hwan. hwana
Success is your ambition of Hassan for the better, perfect to Allaah alone, and if you hear anyone tells you: "my purpose in life, I know that it has started to decline. The human quest for success, and God does not waste the wage of the employees. Bediuzzaman kitœb-Al-says:
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Here's the commandments for whoever wants to pick the fruits of success of Orchard life. And it is only an invitation to success in both realms, what value, if success in the hereafter indicated loss!!
1. you need to fear Allaah they are good has increased. And the best Testament. God Almighty says: "whoever God makes his way out and him as not counted" divorce 1-2. And he says: "and whoever God makes him a easier (4) divorce
2. fill your heart with the love of God and his Messenger peace be upon him, and then love your parents and those around you. Love renewed youth, prolongs life, inherited trust. And hate filled hearts unhappiness and misery.Make your home your love of your family and your family. Love encloses the surgeon, and heart warmth intimacy and affection.
3. make your love for yourself diminish before your love for others. God Almighty says: and affect themselves and if their dirt "hashr 9. happy handing out to people, multiply their happiness. And the thugs hold good for themselves, choking on their chests. Make your heart full of love, tolerance and compassion. The hooligans who are filled with hatred and hatred in their hearts and a curse.
4. don't shed tears for what went on, who the tearful hard luck don't laugh for them, who laugh at trouble, do not have mercy them days. Don't cry over spilt milk. But I make an extra effort to compensate the milk that was lost.
And remember the words of the Prophet: ' and you, no less than if I did it was blah, blah, but tell God what he wants done, if you open the work of the devil "narrated by Muslim
5. make yourself more optimistic. The optimist looks at the night sky and see the Moon, and tenderness pessimist looks to the sky and sees only cruelty of the dark. Be more optimistic than you, optimist attracts the love of others. And the pessimist allusion to himself. Says Wade: was the Prophet like the omen, because pessimism bad thought in God Almighty, and optimistic expectations, and the insurer has been ordered to deliver to God anyway. So mu'aawiyah Ibn Hakam from him – said: I said o Messenger of God, our men ytteron. He said: that is something we find in chests, not ysadnhm. Narrated by Muslim. Al-Nawawi said: means that the contact details in your souls thing TIRA and beams for you, but do so because of the behavior in your own affairs.
6. be more equitable for people than you are. Injustice shortens life, goes to sleep from eyes. We lose who died because we have no parallel in the system and their account. We focus our mistakes. And forget their virtues. We are asking them to be free from defect. And justify our mistakes because we are human beings not infallible. Imam Mohammed bin Sirin: "wronged your brother to remind him the worst of what I saw and the finest" discreetly, and Ibn Al-qayyim said: "How does justice to the creation of the creator did not do justice."
7. If the Ramak people with bricks, collect the bricks to contribute to the reconstruction of the House. If they threw you flowers, deployed on the who allemouk. Who took your hand and you're struggling at the foot of the mountain
8. be sure God first and then yourself. And know your defects. And certainty if you got rid of your defects to be closer to your dreams. Remember your to get rid of your defects. And once your brothers and friends errors to maintain them. I know that from one function to the same defects other flaws.
9. If you successfully order. Don't let vanity sneaking into your heart. The Prophet says, "and God inspired the modesty so as not to boast of one on one and no one wants a" narrated by Muslim. And he says: "they give alms or charity yourself is know of fears (32)" the star. And if on the ground don't let ignorance purporting that people have dug you pit. Try to stand again and open your eyes and your mind to not dig days and nights calamities. If you learn how to stop panic. And remember if it gets caught on the ground. To bend them and help them to stand up.
10. If your opponents do not beat their be ashamed. If infected bane, share and even pray. God Almighty says: "patience and forgive that to resolve things (43). It was a prayer of the Prophet as saying: "o Lord, do not be ashamed of my enemy envious." he said peace be upon him: "do not appear gloating to your brother, God bless his soul and test you." Narrated by Al-tirmidhi.
11. do not combine conviction and lethargy. And not between pride and vanity. And not between humility and humiliation
The Messenger of Allah peace be upon him: "humility to God by God even makes it into the top two high narrated by Ibn maajah
11. choose for yourself the righteous friend and make sure it. The Prophet (PBUH) says: "the man on the religion, seen one Paramour of ykhall," narrated by Al-tirmidhi. Not admonish him in both small and large. Overlook his missteps, the perfection of Allaah alone. Keep in mind his devotion to God and his rectum. You maintained that his farm has no shared life and tells you. Abdullah ibn Ja'far said: you have in the company than if accompanied by garnished you and you sing it preserved you, and you need it to view aank you good-filled or counted and stains. "
12. don't bicker, quarrel rips rope friendship, creates fake buffers between lives. Make yourself more each year from the year two, happy not narrow chests. They tolerate other and afford their flaws. And once people abuse and remember their
13. tolerance with those who make a mistake in your right, they sought excuses. Tolerance and guzzle forgiven you. Tolerance prolongs life, restores you confidence in people and respect for others you.. Wash the wrinkles of hatred from your heart and your memory. And know that a succession of misread you oblivion does not beat them with knives. : The Messenger of Allah peace be upon him: "one of you should be aiags as my father was if damdam home said: I give to my people," narrated by Abu Dawood. Imam al-Nawawi said: do not ask who wronged me in the dark and not in the hereafter, and that works in the dark drop existed prior to exoneration, but what happens after the discharge must be new ".
14. give others your heart and your mind and your money and your time. And don't give them bills. And if it helps others, not asking people to help you. Let your business purely for the sake of Allah, and if you're nice to people, provided beware that ticket, and here's a beautiful man, advised beware to forget him. The Almighty said: "those who believe not! they annul your alms Balmain and mischief" cow 264.
Remember the words of the poet:
The best people to enslave their hearts *** as long as enslaved human charity
15. take it all you failed one of the life experiences that precede every success and victory. The night however long it must dawn. someone said: success cannot Ascend her stairs and your hands in your Pocket!!
16. Ahmed Allah on bean dish. Do not curse the days because it didn't make you a dish of caviar every day. Be submissive. And beware of envy, God has singled out people with his grace to them. It is hoped the demise of grace on others. But ask Allah of his bounty. He said Al-Mustafa (PBUH): "o Abu hurayrah Kuhn devout not worship people, be kotaa not thank people, and love to people what you love for yourself you are not locked, and the best neighborhood of neighbored you not Muslim, and less laughter, much laughter deadens the heart" narrated by Ibn maajah.
17. don't forget each day asking God pardon and wellness. In the hadeeth narrated by Al-tirmidhi, says the Prophet: "ask God's pardon and wellness no one gave after the certainty of good wellness" narrated by Al-tirmidhi
18. I ask Allaah note useful and livelihood. Science is the Treasury which crept thieves. And a JD in the hands of ignorant become a bunch of dirt, and a handful of dirt in the hands of the learner into a thousand dinars. Ali bin Abi Talib-karrama Allaah wajhahu – a man from his companions: Hey, science is better than money, science and you are guarding chikk Rabi protect you money and science Governor and money is doomed, money lacking maintenance, the science they purify spending. " And science destroys vanity. Vanity is the banana peel slide, you climb rope success. Says the Prophet: "ask of God note useful, they seek the protection of God of no benefit." Narrated by Ibn maajah. It was therefore the Prophet: "o Allah, I seek refuge from the flag of no benefit, and from the heart, not from the same insatiable, and prayer is heard, and of those four," narrated by Ibn maajah.
19. try to cheer up all around you, happy and pleased others around you. You can't laugh between tears. And enjoy the light of dawn and those around you from living in the dark. And human happiness doubled the number who succeed in delight. And if your livelihood, try happy people with some money. If your livelihood is crowded, try to make them feel good to call medical. . The Messenger of Allah peace be upon him: "it was thanks to increased so it is not increased." Narrated by Muslim. He said Al-Mustafa (PBUH): "fear of fire if Tamra swallowtail, it did not find it a good word" narrated by Shaykhan. He said peace be upon him: do not think something is known, although the brother had divorced "narrated by Muslim
20. try to remember who helped you on your misfortune. And who gave you their hand and you get stuck. And those who stood with you when you ran the lower back. And who they take out you of your unit on your gave up some of those around you. At least you thanked them and echoed them.. I thank them once again, beautiful them whenever you can. PBUH said: "don't thank people don't thank God" narrated by Al-tirmidhi, and said peace be upon him: you made it known they rewarded him, didn't find what they reward him, claiming him so see you have kavatmoh. Narrated by Abu Dawood.
21. try to remember the names of those who offended them accidentally. I ask Allaah to absolve you, invite them to ask God to forgive you. People are held accountable. It WAZ a waste of time.
22. take so weak, however, recovers its strength. Stop next to hopeless until he sees a glimmer of hope. And they failed to realize with success. Try licking some injured people, and contribute to the restoration of the houses was doomed to fall. Mustafa said hoped him to reflect the relationship between you and the others: "the insured mirror insured, insured insured's brother, keeps him his farm and shrouded behind" narrated by Abu Dawood and classed as Hasan by Al-albaani.
23. If the dark creep, so be one of the campaign, no one who threw stones at the lanterns. If dawn, be among those who receive the rays of the day, one of the zombies who don't realize the sunrise.
24. try to pay some of the debts of the people you have. Some gave you the summary of his experiences during the years of a decade ago. Some gave you confidence, did not stand alone in the face of the storms of life. Some light you a candle amid darkness, sighted the road in the daytime. Some fill your mind. Others filled your heart. The greatest, thank God the Almighty the favouring you all graces, how us if God told us the day of judgment, as in the hadeeth Qudsi narrated Muslim: "Ya Ibn Adam, your campaign on horses and camels and your wife and you made the Royal terrace, where he thanked?" are we prepared for that question an answer!!
25. If coming from the top of the mountain, don't let vanity get irritated your right, and do not fancy that those at FCs are dwarfs. Allah says: "and do not tisair your cheek to people and not walk on earth that God loves all boaster proud (18)," Lukman said. And I've asked Hasan about humility: humility is out of the kidney and not a Muslim but I've seen him just as well.
Overcome your ego and your hand to help standing at the foot of the reach the top of the mountain. If your after a failed reach the top of the mountain, not accuse others because they misspell. Learn your mistakes and your defects, even if you reach the top of the mountain again knew how to prove your feet by increasing the number of those who stand with you at the Summit.
26. not looking for other defects: the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him: "If a guy is consumed by people perished," narrated by Muslim. Al-khattaabi said: its meaning, still wrong with people and little msaoaehm says mangle people perished, it is worse of them suffers from guilt in not be grim, and pit them. "said the owner: if he said that sadden us to what is seen in people is their religion, I don't see anything wrong with it, and if he said that wonder in itself and servility to people is the abomination that is terminated."
27. don't make a desperate way to your heart, Elias shut its eyes. You don't see open and outstretched hands. the Almighty said: say hey Ebadi who have used excessive themselves do not despair for Allah mercy that God forgives all sins that is oft (53) cliques.
28. realizing that if perfected your work and I loved it and I dedicate oneself to it. You can check what it, and don't forget the modern Messenger of Allah peace be upon him: "God loves you pursuant to that if done properly," narrated by Abu ya'la
29. recalls that a believer can likely hunger and can potentially denial. Can live in the open. But cannot live series. And Allaah says: "glory to God and his Messenger and the believers"
.30. Computer yourself before you call. And gets your business before you that counts. . God said: ' o you who believe, fear God and consider the same as provided for and fear Allah, that Allah is an expert in what you do (18) "surat al-hashr. He said Omar Bin Al-Khattab, may Allah be pleased with him – "review yourselves before held accountable it the lesser of your account, they weighed yourself before they weigh, they be equipped with on the show do not hide you secret"
