Love control and personal power

Love control and personal power

* Fancy many people believe that dominate others but to violence and force, and this type is not only virtual control, you find other people they respect you or are afraid of you, but once you lose they despise you. This negative control because it does not achieve any result, it pernicious consequences.

There is a much greater control over the control of hearts! And cannot get this type only by love, and to make others they obey you voluntarily and all voluntarily and submission, which enjoy the Holy Prophet (PBUH), the King of hearts and minds.

One of the most important qualities of a successful leader should pay attention to those around you, and to learn how to listen to concerns and problems, and pay you the power and respect in the hearts of these ... Also you must learn how to overcome emotions, impulsive and reckless does not give a positive result.

Scientists say the best way to eliminate rush or emotion to be tolerant, and it says: (it is archaic and immoral to God he does not love oppressors) (surat al-Shura: 40), and also says: (and patience and forgive that to resolve things) (surat al-Shura: 43) no patience and forgiveness, tolerance, is one of the things that give strength of resolve and this reflected the strength of character.

There are also important and necessary to be a strong personality, is to learn how to gain the confidence of others, this can be achieved easily by just be honest, says: (o ye who believe, fear Allah and be with the truthful) (Surat at-Tawba: 119), honesty makes people more respectful to you, but there is a difference between being honest to people, or be honest to God Almighty.

In the first case don't earn any reward in the hereafter, because you have taken your reward in this world of respect for people and their appreciation for you and treat them with you and trust you, if believed you for God, you earn the minimum wage and the minimum wage in the afterlife you earn respect and trust and love, and in the afterlife you earn great pay, be with the prophets and friendly and the righteous.