How to express yourself by starting and frees the real character

How to express yourself by starting and frees the real character

What we call "personality" is a reflection that shows your unique creative created the spirit of God,

A divine flame within us which we might call the free expression of the true self

This true self inside everyone of us is something attractive his magneto strong influence and impact on others

And when you are dealing with someone these true self

We are feeling that we are in touch with the genuine thing

While dealing with a false person is hated and detested of all people.

Everyone inside character trapped inside

Everyone has something mysterious call profile

When we say that a person "has a strong personality," what we mean is that he succeeded in freeing the creative potential

And released its ability to express itself.

Profile vulnerable are only restricted character

Human profile vulnerable is not creative self-expression inside

Because the constraints and shackled her shackling then threw the key away.

The word "restricted" literally means stop and prevention and interdiction.

Human profile the same restrictions imposed on restricted

And the same expression of beauty itself.

For one reason or another has become afraid to express himself,

Afraid to be himself,

And locking himself inside a real internal.

Symptoms of personal credits are many and varied:

Shame, reclusion, anaphylaxis, and hostility, and feeling excessive guilt, insomnia, nervousness, and obstructs the

And lack of harmony with others.

Frustration is the features inherent to all aspects of personal life and activities restricted.

The real disappointment was his failure to "be himself"

And his failure to express himself in an integrated manner

But this frustration sneaking and exudes on everything in his life.

Negative feedback excessive nutrition is the key constraint

The purpose of negative feedback feeding modify the response to stimuli around us

And change the path to the right direction forward

The aim is not to stop moving completely

If the negative you turn feeding properly

The projectile torpedo deal with "negative criticism" enough to correct the path and continue to move towards goal in the form of a series of zigzags as explained earlier

If the mechanism is very sensitive to negative feedback information reaction is exaggerated the crisis.

Instead of progress towards the goal,

The move would be in the form of "exaggerated meanders

Or stops moving forward.

Automatic control devices inside us work the same way. We must have negative feedback in order to progress and completion of any work.

This information guide us towards the right direction towards the goal.

But when this excessive negative feedback,

Or when we are overly sensitive to them, the result is not modified response

But restricting the response and stopped.

And so when we deal with extreme sensitivity with criticism and negative reactions of others towards us

We understand that we may have a bit of the path

Or did wrong an error needs to be modified

But we understand what is required of us is that we stop completely

Because we conclude that the Act in itself is wrong.

Careful and cautious excessively limit ELAN and anxiety

They use and adverse reactions,

And employ about better social performance.

Bearing in mind that this kind of negative feedback,

To be effective, it must be creative.

It should be issued automatically only mind awareness

And not artificially conscious thinking.

"What is the opinion of people?" is a factor restricting the profile

When you are overly sensitive to the opinion of the people in manufacturing

And when you become very keen on trying to please others, sensitive

And when you become very sensitive to rejection of others, whether real or imagined, rejection

Become your responses to negative reactions too exaggerated

And become your actions restricted and shows poor performance.

Whenever you're too careful and watching a subliminal every word you say

And every gesture and every movement and every behavior

Freeze your personality and multiply your sensitivity to your situation

And become more fearful and anxious to take away is to give other people a good impression,

But this only succeeded in shackling the real character

And put the brakes on your creativity and your own creative because

And in the end does not underdevelopment only tiny bad impression.

The only way to leave a good impression to people is:

Don't "try" never conscious effort to leave a good impression.

Practical training:

1. do not operate your thinking in advance and specify the words that will say her

Just open your mouth and spoke. Improvisation is the best way. .

2. don't plan everything you do and don't think much of what comes tomorrow (dont think before that)

Trust in God and go on and if you have corrected the errors while you work.

This advice may seem a thing of frivolity,

However, this is precisely the way automatic control devices.

For example, the torpedo shell does not account for all errors and correct them in advance,

But progress toward goal comes first to start moving,

And then corrects any errors that might occur in the way.

. "Practically we cannot think first and then implement then since we are born and we are working,

We guide ourselves only by sporadic moments of thinking ".

3. stop criticizing yourself

Human profile restricted indulges in analysis and self-criticism.

After all the work however was simple says to himself: "I wonder whether I should do what I did?"

After gathering enough courage and say something

You see the same happens immediately and says:

"Perhaps I should say so! Maybe the person understands me alakharali wrong "

Turn off all your attempts to tear yourself then you don't need it

The amendment process and performance improvement already occurs, but not conscious Diva

Spontaneously, and automatically.

Either the conscious self-criticism, analysis and reflection

It is also a good and helpful, if you do maybe once a year

But if self-criticism and try to assess your attitude and thy

Moment by moment, day by day,

It will not only defeat you

When you find yourself beginning this dialogue of self-criticism left immediately and don't be a party to it.

4. to speak with a stronger voice than usual

Human profile restricted his notorious weak that his voice is low and weak

The highest of your voice just to exercise speak louder than I used to.

Talking aloud in itself is an adjunct to the self-confidence and personal liberation.

5. return to reveal your love to those you love

Profile restricted human afraid of expressing his feelings

Whether good or bad

If the feelings of love, he fears expressed

Not even visible to others as a human being passionate.

If the feelings of friendship, is afraid that people will kind of flattery or hypocrisy

And that would compliment the others, it is feared that they see as trivial on the surface

Or suspect the motives or purposes beyond demonstrating courtesy

You have to completely ignore all these negative signals

Trains to compliment three people every day

For example, if you like what someone wears or what or what you tell it to.