Scour your heart ....!
B o m God the Rahman the trip ~
Sometimes we delay in contact and question them, they immediately found they interrupt us several days without
Open for dialogue and discussion to find out what happened, and without using SOAP, which purely souls, despite
That admonition to love, say trade people, but the admonition is not an "effective" only if used in
Time, and with the right person to accept with open arms the gentle admonition, in an age of
Ibn Al-Khattab _ Allah _ says: do not cut your brother on suspicion, and forsakes him without astatab.
And not even losing those we love so we admonish them gently through the:
1. define our admonition: it cannot be longer than our admonition to a certain extent and does not turn
We speak of a kind of reproach, and do not repeat what we say him, and insist a lot ", and similarly says:
(Good speech maqil and DL), so do not turn off the type of attack.
2. lanthaon: while our admonition must not exceed a certain threshold also needed but lacking
The limit that makes it effective, "complacency" only negligence is by others
And special friends, and occurs in the non-observance of what is bothering us.
3. to "direct" accusation: it is not permissible to put our friend for example "accused, we compel to her defence
Themselves in a way that seemed to exculpate her from certain charges, including Yugur chest towards us, and maybe
Lose partly or totally. "
4-put the points on the characters: when we admonish people to "define precisely the things that annoy us, meaning
Put dots on the letters, with confirmation during our admonition that we remain his friendship, and that is only for our admonition
Stay friendly.
5. polite method: never use "words out of the literature, and we turn our words carefully, even
Do we challenge the person, not forgetting our words.
6. quiet: lanrva our voice, and speak calmly and dispassionately and to remember that we do not we admonish bicker.
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