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Saturday, February 9, 2013

When a large ... Be idol.

When a large ... Be idol.* Rights ordered him amazing is when a small waiting when grow up .. And when it becomes significant if the child wishes!! This thinking you and I and most of the people .. But did we think of days we in this age what children think when they see our actions?To go back to back and let us return to the old seventh or eighth, for example .. Now I see in my mind child looks at her father, a scold a family member, "expects" what her reaction would be?Continued this scene in your mind is the one who will get? Certainly will the girl tradition .. Why? Because large .. In the eyes of children every what Ekprhm do not is always right .. Before acting any action in front of the children .. Remember that you are great and when they are large, you are role models.To see some of the other scenes ..The first scene: professor asks a student at the elementary level: What is the fifth pillar of Islam? The student does not answer, teacher فيكرر question once and twice and the student does not answer .. Vigtaz teacher thereof, and Ptobejh shall or beat him and tells him you stupid and you do not understand .. Etc..
Scene II: Comes a Big Brothers and enters the room is the registered holder or the mobile phone, and singing louder place, Vtansha mother but raises his voice and come out from the room is angry and all this gets in front of his younger sister or little brother.
Results: our children will be established on negative thoughts Teacher told me you stupid .. The teacher does not make mistakes, he knows the great, Sterby child Aalasaan asked him something would anger you as you did with your mother is learning from you .. Vkabar always right.So will our children in the future and there are many scenes in our lives leave you to attach them yourself before he finished to see scenes in a way we wish we.
Correct the first scene: professor asks a student at the elementary level: What is the fifth pillar of Islam? The student does not answer, Fasalh teacher calmly Do you know the answer? Student indicates his head:Teacher Phipptzm and say: Come and listen to answer your friend!!You and I will question at the end of the quota.
Correct Scene II: Comes a Big Brothers and enters the room is the registered holder or the mobile phone, and singing louder than the place, mother Vtansha, be reduced voice and accept his mother's head, and says: Lee allegedly guided.
Results: Snnco generation of creative and talented, and Snrbe our children in righteousness and good manners .. Thus we must be for our children to be like us .. A child sees you Kidwa Sikld everything you do and follow the example of your in all conditions."The best way that we control the behavior of the child is educated and guidance more than discipline him, the process of changing the behavior of the child of bad behavior to good behavior is an educational process, not the process of punitive .. In this case prefer smile instead of frowning, and sound quiet instead of yelling , and reward rather than punishment. "
* Last words:* To every father and mother and a teacher and brother .. To each adult always remember when you want to act any behavior that a child sees or hears When the great, your child tells you you idol .. This I told the eighteenth of my life and still tell slowly Dear Educator you great fault Saguetda .. I said what is in my opinion rightly it was God, and that was wrong فمني and Satan.

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