The art of dealing with the wrong

The art of dealing with the wrong

Error human conduct must soak the sages we or ignorant .. and it is not reasonable to
The error is small Venkbrh .. And Ndkhmh .. We must handle the error wisely and Rouet
Whatever the case, we need from time to time and to review our tactics in dealing with
Errors ..
And to handle errors special art in itself .. Based on several rules .. I ask you to
Do you read me carefully ..

':': ': The first rule': ':':

Blame for the wrong often does not come fine
Remember that the blame does not come with positive results often try to avoided
... It has been explained
We Anas, may Allah be pleased with him that he served the Prophet peace be upon him and his family peace and ten years at Meh
Something never ..
Blame such as the deadly arrow off until refouler wind Ali owner Faave that that
Blame shatters self-pride and enough that it is not in this world one likes to blame ..


':': ': The second rule': ':':

Far from the fuzzy barrier appointed at fault
Fault, sometimes it does not feel it is wrong, how we draw a direct blame and reproach harsh and he sees
It is right ..
If you do not have to remove the mist from his eyes to know that the error in the story of the young man with

Prophet Muhammad, blessings and the God of peace and studied in terms of a Astzmha came all
Boldness and expressly
Adultery and said to him the Prophet, peace be upon him: (Would you accept it for your mother)
He said: No
Said the Prophet, peace be upon God and peace: (, people not يرضونه for their mothers)
Then the Prophet said Allah bless him and God and peace: (Would you accept it for your sister??)
He said: No
Said the Prophet, peace be upon God and peace: (people do not يرضونه sisters)
Vibgd young adultery


':': ': The third rule': ':':

Use kind words to fix the error
Verily We all recognize that the magic of the statement why not use this magic

Error handling ..
For example, when we say the wrong
(If you do such and such for the better)
(What would you think if you do as well)
(I suggested to do well .. What's your point of view)
Is not the best of our saying ...
O little civility and literature ..
Not hear ..
Not prudence ..
Omjnon you ..
How many times I told you ..
A vast difference between the two approaches .. Notify us our appreciation and respect for the last to recognize
Own and forfeits


':': ': Fourth-Qaeda': ':':

Leave a more convincing argument ...
Avoid controversy in the error handling is more and deeper impact of the same mistake and remember ..
You arguments or may lose .. because the fault has linking error dignity Vidaf error
Dignity and finds in the room and the debate is difficult for him to refer the error is not close
Open doors and make it easy for him to go back.


':': ': Fifth-Qaeda': ':':

Put yourself into the wrong and then look for the solution
Try to put yourself into the wrong and think from his point of view and think of possible options
That can accept and choose what suits him


':': ': Rule VI': ':':

What was gentleness in anything but it adorns ..
Forbearance win .. And fix the error .. And maintain the dignity of the wrong .. We all tell a story
Bedouin who PAL in the mosque how dealt with the Prophet, peace be upon him kindly ..
Even aware A'raabi it wrong ..


':': ': Rule VII': ':':

Let others they come to your idea ..
When human mistake, it may be appropriate to correct the error to make it discovers error
Himself and then make it discovers himself and solution when a person discovers his error and then discovers the solution
Right and there is no doubt that it would be more enthusiastic because he feels that the idea the idea is ..


':': ': Rule VIII': ':':

When criticizing mention aspects right ..
For others to accept your criticism polite and error correction Ochaaram equity through your criticism ..
Man may make mistakes, but it may be in its proportion of health Why Ngflha ..


':': ': Rule ninth': ':':

Not searching for hidden errors ..
Try to correct errors phenomenon and not searching for hidden errors because you do spoil
Hearts ... and because God Almighty forbade tracking Muslims SINS


':': ': Qaeda X': ':':

Inquired about the error with Ihsan conjecture ..
When an error tells you about a man endures him and inquired about him with the good you think you are so

Makes him feel respected and valued as feel is ashamed that this error does not fit in kind
.. As if to say I received you have done as well as I do not think your childhood


':': ': The eleventh rule': ':':

Praise the few right a lot of acclaimed right ...
For example, when raising your son to be a writer the glorious Vdrih to write and commended him and
I remember aspects of the right, it will continue, God willing ..


':': ': Second rule ten': ':':

Remember that the word harsh admonitions have a good word synonymous perform the same meaning ..
When Chinese like say ...
Point of honey phishing traps barrels of gall ..

To know that the good word affect .. And harsh words people can not stand him ..

':': ': Third base ten': ':':

Mark error Hina and easy and I'm self-confidence to fix it ..
Moderation years in the whole universe, and while the error is located is not justified in the over-
Camera size ..



':': ': Rule XIV': ':':

Remember that people dealing Bawatafhm more of their minds