Negative
critic, and how to deal with him
Many people suffer from lack of control over negative self-talk "critic" is affected their lives and weaken their abilities, only because they allowed for this critic to control them
But thou practitioner of NLP can help others through a simple dialogue with the beneficiary to show him how to deal with this negative talk internal
Example
Beneficiary: I can not finish the task assigned to it at work on time
GP: And what self-critic said complainer located inside you about it?
Beneficiary: I am a lazy person and will not move forward in the work never
GP: I want sound wise "positive" inside you respond to this critic, what do you say
Beneficiary: All I hear is the critic
GP: Well, try to see now if you can find the voice of the wise "positive" to respond to the critic,, Are you really lazy person and failed?
Beneficiary: Well, wise voice says, "it true that you're working in this task slowly, but you eventually get you done accurately and high quality, and there was no running bales Bank delayed else"
GP: So deep critic regarding non-mastery
Beneficiary: Yes, he always exaggerated
And the best way to help the beneficiary to overcome the negative critic is Socratic questioningIt is a way Socrates used to detect logical contradictions in the arguments of his studentsThere are three main steps Ankink Astkhaddanha for questioning
1) the questions that reveal launch exaggerated generalizations or judgments"Is it true that you always spoil things? Do something true pain before?"
2) the questions that reveal the use of false Alaossalv"Is it true that getting a relatively low degree means you are a failed human being"
3) questions that demonstrate lack of evidence"What evidence do you that people think you are a failed person"
Many people suffer from lack of control over negative self-talk "critic" is affected their lives and weaken their abilities, only because they allowed for this critic to control them
But thou practitioner of NLP can help others through a simple dialogue with the beneficiary to show him how to deal with this negative talk internal
Example
Beneficiary: I can not finish the task assigned to it at work on time
GP: And what self-critic said complainer located inside you about it?
Beneficiary: I am a lazy person and will not move forward in the work never
GP: I want sound wise "positive" inside you respond to this critic, what do you say
Beneficiary: All I hear is the critic
GP: Well, try to see now if you can find the voice of the wise "positive" to respond to the critic,, Are you really lazy person and failed?
Beneficiary: Well, wise voice says, "it true that you're working in this task slowly, but you eventually get you done accurately and high quality, and there was no running bales Bank delayed else"
GP: So deep critic regarding non-mastery
Beneficiary: Yes, he always exaggerated
And the best way to help the beneficiary to overcome the negative critic is Socratic questioningIt is a way Socrates used to detect logical contradictions in the arguments of his studentsThere are three main steps Ankink Astkhaddanha for questioning
1) the questions that reveal launch exaggerated generalizations or judgments"Is it true that you always spoil things? Do something true pain before?"
2) the questions that reveal the use of false Alaossalv"Is it true that getting a relatively low degree means you are a failed human being"
3) questions that demonstrate lack of evidence"What evidence do you that people think you are a failed person"
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